Dealing with negative people

“Happiness is not something ready-made. It comes from your own actions.” ~Dalai Lama

Ok, so we all know that positive people create positive lives, and negative people dig themselves a hole of misery and blame the world! You can try to help, listen to their problems, take on their worries, offer soloutions, ideas and advice. However, you can take the horse to water BUT you can’t make it drink!  So what do you do?  You’ve tried,  you’ve put your energy in, you’ve given your time,  you’ve helped as much as you can –  but they don’t drink!

My resolution is go grab a bottle of Champagne and put your energy into enjoying your own life.   If you can’t help people in taking the yellow brick road, then put your energy into your own journey.  Hopefully you can inspire them on your way –  Just  make sure you always have that hand waving as a sign to say ‘ hey I’m here if you need me’.

Its tough when you can see people burning their own bridges due to their attitude, but they can’t grow unless they really want to. Sometimes people just don’t want to take responsibility for their own life and can’t step away from blaming their problems on the cards they were dealt.  

Life dishes out some crazy shit sometimes and so many people’s roads can be rocky. HOWEVER  many people have conquered rocky roads. There is no excuse – only the desire to be happy.

Here’s some good old You Tube Vids to kick-start your short working week xx

The Pursuit of Happyness Part 1 ( Will Smith played Chris Gardener in the movie that was made)

The Pursuit of Happyness Part 2

The Pursuit of Happyness Trailer

Kristin Hallenga – Pride of Britain Award Winners 2009

Nick Vujicic: A man with no limbs who teaches people how to get up

Randy Pausch Last Lecture: Achieving Your Childhood Dreams

Opening blog pic is designed by  The image is the cover image from a book entitled ‘Follow The Yellow Brick Road’ for )


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